CHANGE MY BEHAVIOR

Me: Ok, I’m back. Sorry, about that. As I was saying, I know it’s not easy to listen to the truth, but people don’t have a problem, especially if they find a willing partner, connecting to you, they have a problem committing to you. Commitment takes everything in you! Temptation is so real when it comes to sex because you see it everywhere. It’s on the TV in all kinds of movies, commercials, videos, etc. It’s on the radio, billboards, the internet – almost anything that you can see advertised has people that promote it by sex. It may have nothing to do with sex.

You: Well, it’s not like we have to pay attention to all of that.

Me: True. But, guess what, subconsciously we do.

Let’s have a conversation about this question!

Me: With phrases like “back that thang up!”, “superman that ‘ho’! (yes, I know that these are older terms), and any other number of off-colored remarks that people use in the streets we can say that sex should be preached from the pulpit.

You: Say what? The stuff people say dictates what should be preached in the pulpit?

Me: Yep! I will add more to it before I take it back.

As I was walking home one day, I noticed a couple ahead of me. Every few minutes they stopped to smooch and whisper to each other. All of sudden their gentle touches became violent. They began yelling at each other in the middle of the street. I was tripping on this couple because the words they yelled made me wonder why they were together in the first place. Neither of them displayed the ingredients for a normal, healthy relationship. They weren’t even aware of how ignorant and disrespectful they were being. Well the conversation ended when the “gentleman” yelled “You suck my d!#k!” Not one for backing down, the “young lady” replied, “Well you eat my pu$#y!”

This is not the first time I’ve witnessed “loving couples,” married and unmarried go at it in public. I have been at small friendship gatherings, birthday parties, and at family reunions where this disrespect has become the new norm between couples. They would argue, belittle, curse at one another and bring out personal failures while everyone in attendance looked on. Not only is this disrespectful, but it could also lead to domestic violence. Then these “loving couples” have the nerve to tell those in the room to stay out of their business. Well, if they didn’t want folks commenting or gossiping about their business, they should argue at home.

Elder Dixon explains that while oral sex may look like an appetizing alternative to intercouse, the consequences can be just as dire:

Excerpt – Oral sex is good. Sexual intercourse is great! I don’t know about you, but I like eating…food! Dinner is great, but dessert is to die for! Take it from someone who knows! So often, people compare the two as if they are the same thing. Ask any man and invite them to a sexual encounter, and about 60% of them will most likely give you a positive answer to your invitation…

One more thing, and we will hit this in another article, most people don’t tell you that pre-marital sex (out of place sex) messes up your sex life after you get married. Can I put that on blast?! SEX (ANY KIND) CAN MESS UP GOOD MARRIED SEX!!!!!